How do you feel about yourself? Do you believe in yourself? Have confidence? High self esteem? Love yourself? When you truly possess self love you don’t need external sources of short term gratification. I cannot stress enough the importance of self love. When you love yourself not only does it feel liberating on many levels but it’s like a superpower in how you’ll be able to positively impact others by both actions and in the energy you give off. You won’t be as impacted by the words and actions of others and you’ll live true to your values and beliefs.
When you possess self love you don’t need external sources. They’re always nice and you’ll enjoy when get but won’t need. The need for external vices and recognition are typically exhibiting the void that needs to be filled. Every day work on self love. You are unique. You are special. However you need to realise and believe this.