I bet you’re awesome at kicking ass in any area of your life when things are running smooth and feels like nothing can go wrong. However it’s your reactions in times of challenge which will ultimately decide your level of success and happiness. Life will inevitably have obstacles and challenging times. That’s just how it goes. It’s crucial to face and accept this fact. Now the test of how much you want to achieve a goal or how committed you are to a relationship or vision is in times of challenge. How do you typically react? If you truly want something enough you will be willing to go through walls If required. You’ll find a solution or at least give 100% in attempt. If challenging times don’t stir you into positive action and solution mode I’d question how much you truly want a resolution or to achieve that goal. You might need to change course.